April 1, 2007 entry
It’s been sometime since I took a moment to sit earnestly at my computer on a weekend. So much time is spent over the course of a week communicating via this cute laptop, that it’s nice to just get away in the sunshine & fresh outdoors to fully embrace the vitality of life itself. Stopping to smell the flowers, an ancient saying, perhaps, but one that never loses it’s ability to remind us of the truth & beauty of life’s experiences in real time.
The more we empathize with and understand people, the better we can design effective solutions to meet their needs
One perspective is to look within at how we interact in the physical world and how we choose our own communities for socialization. What is it that we seek/ gravitate towards in our own lives? Do we seek out others of similar ways of thinking out of comfort, or do we challenge ourselves to understand those who may be listening to the beat of a different drummer? Do we gently question an alternative point of view or shy away from a controversial and untested approach, should we stumble and falter in the unknown? Do we risk unearthing the unknown of how we normally interpret information/ life experiences in the name of creative adventures and understanding? I wonder.
A few quotes that come to mind as I jot down these thoughts are:
” I have not failed, I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work ” – Thomas Edison, inventor ” Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved in experimenting with his own life.“ – Herbert Otto, psychologist ” The harder you work, the luckier you get“ – Bela Karolyi, gymnastics coach. And lastly, a favorite from the Finch School of Maxims: “Believing in people usually brings out the best in them”
Synchronized emotions - we are members of real & virtual worlds:
We are first and foremost a member of a physical community journeying through our own life experiences, and secondly the creators of online communities propagated by virtualities. The way we behave in one speaks to the way we behave in another. Each nourishes the manner by which we potentially create the social networks of tomorrow.
If we dare not step beyond our comfort zones in our everyday realities, are we primed to truly step outside of the mainstream towards true innovation in our virtualities? How do we expand our mindscapes of imagination towards the outer peripheries of possibilities of yet to be defined futurescapes? How do we maintain a level of steadfastness in our personal definitions of self yet at the same time synchronize with those of other mindsets in the name of societal comraderies? We are at the very core, speaking of unraveling the nuances of interpretive realities between individuals. These individuals, one by one, you and me, our friends and neighbors, we are the societies of reality, how we interact and how we mingle, how we share in thoughts, how we resolve differences, speaks volumes for how we will eventually build our future societies. As we plunge head first into such inventions of futurescapes, it’s good to take a moment to assure that we have 2 of each species of thought entering the ark of creative possibilities.
Alternative perspectives on a team:
Do you have, if not 2, at least one representative of each major mode of thinking in your cross functional team? Are you pulling together a team that all thinks the same way, and thereby may approach their cognitive realities in a similar way? Perhaps this will be easier in the short term, faster decisions, we all think alike… but is this the proper fertilizer to nourish our imaginations towards next generation innovations?
Shake it up, mix it up, sparking imaginations:
Maybe what our industry needs is a bit of the mix them all up, shake them all around and see what happens when the
sparks fly with
alternative
perspectives
. It may feel uncomfortable at times, as if we don’t know where we’re headed, that’s natural. Perhaps it will feel like we are unsure of ourselves, or perhaps we will resist the changes on the horizons. We are after all, still human. Our
emotions
are a
large
part of
who we are
, whether we choose
to express
them or not, we can
not deny
the emotional aspect
of our life experiences
.
So, maybe today’s musings are really just about how we personalize the innovation revolution in creating the next generation of societies, so that we can be proud of our contributions. The innovations of today, are we looking at how these can benefit our societies of tomorrow? Are we listening to our hearts, minds and souls as we venture forth toward defining & realizing the physical and virtual geographies years from now? What do we wish our internet legacies to be for future generations? What may this internet revolution morph into in distant years? How do we wish to play a role in this evolution, this time sculpting of information and humanity? Hmmm…. I’m getting hungry, and the sun is fading quickly! 
Ok, I think that’s enough pondering for today. I have to now put the fresh flowers in a vase and am excited about the new ceramic stew pot I just bought in Half Moon Bay yesterday. Hmm, I wonder if one of these new social networks will offer cooking in the virtual world?
What I’m up to these days:
Oh, lastly I should mention that one of the reasons I’ve not been tapping away at my home studio as much lately is due to an exciting opportunity I was offered at eBay late last year. I was convinced it was the right time to head back to the corporate world full time and found a company that has a heart, values people and life. When I read the eBay values, I thought I was reading the Urban Peacock values, that’s when I knew this was the right home for me for this time in life 
Since last November, I’ve been at eBay, serving as a Lead UI Designer in their UED group, adjusting to corporate life, meetings, coffee chats
, off-sites, enjoying new friendships with cool, intelligent and kind hearted folks. The warmth I have encountered at this company reminds me of my old days at PSBN (PeopleSoft Business Network) back in 1999. The sense of family is strong within this group. With our recent move (you may have caught the story in the NY Times, I’ll see if I can hunt down the URL to put here), it is a time of getting to know our new neighbors and journeying forth with added vigor to transform our definitions of future realities 
Sometimes the weeks pass by so fluidly, without a trace or demarcation of the days along the way. Sometimes weekends become times of restful reprise. Sometimes taking a moment to absorb the frolicking sunshine as it dances between glistening leaves, giving ourselves to the warmth of it’s embrace, allowing time for true understanding of the experiences around us. Perhaps it all just comes down to the nudging along of an inner smile as it radiates outwardly to inform us of the delicacy of life and the fleetingness of beauty …should we take a moment to stand still… breathe… look up… and embrace the truth of our lives, the wonder of time, the joy of it all.
Ok, on that happy note, I think it’s totally time to brighten the interior, nature’s light is dimming to sleep out there, and my stomach is totally growling for nourishment. The flowers also need tending, they will brighten up the home for the coming week. I hope you’ve enjoyed this jaunt into the imagination of possibilities. Have a great Easter and April and much joy to you all
Till next time, happy designing! 
– Kavita Bali, Urban Peacock
PS: Since the beginning (for me that’s 1994) I’ve always been a huge fan of emoticons, and I think it’s now getting slowly out of control in a totally happy way!